E67 Honi: How Divine Appointments Happen And How To Handle Online Hate With Grace

Have you ever walked into a situation you didn't plan — and found God Almighty had already arranged everything?

In this solo episode, Rev. HoniB shares two very real experiences from the same week — a spontaneous divine appointment during an apartment tour with her son that turned into an hour of soul-deep connection, and a fresh encounter with online hate directed at her faith. Raw, honest and deeply practical, this episode tackles both the beauty of unexpected divine connection and the real challenge of meeting negativity on your embodiment walk without losing your footing.

In this episode:

• What a divine appointment actually looks like — and how to recognize you are in one
• The apartment tour with her son Keon that became an unexpected God-ordained gathering
• How to speak God Almighty into an ordinary moment and watch it transform
• Why fundamental hate expressed in the name of Jesus is still just a soul seeking love
• How Rev. HoniB handles online hate — screenshot, remove, pray, bless
• The spirit of strife — what it is, how it works and why engaging with it feeds it
• Why negativity only pierces you when you don't understand its purpose
• A beautiful email from a listener whose prayer was answered through Rev. HoniB's NDE interview
• The difference between letting it affect you and meeting it with God's authority
• Why the more public you go the more you will be tested — and why that is part of the call
• The Belief Thought Emotion Self Mastery course — 14 modules on exactly this
• A Mother's Day special episode announcement — Friday May 8th 🌹

🌹 If you have been rattled by someone else's negativity and lost your peace — this episode will show you another way.

Transcript

Mother’s Day Special Announcement

Recognizing A Divine Appointment

Culture Faith And Human Dignity

When Negativity Shows Up Online

Why You Cannot Fight Hate

Protecting Your Emotions And Power

A Supportive Email After The Hate

Tools Courses Mentorship And Takeaways

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Hello and welcome to the Essential Alchemist Podcast. It is your host, Reverend Honey Boden, and we are a community that comes together and embodies the divine design of our life. We are aligning with God Almighty and we are taking this embodiment walk in our human journey. And what a fun journey, huh? So let's talk about today's topic, which I'm excited to talk about, that kind of touches upon last week's conversation that we had with Discipline. And this week, the topic is all about meeting negativity. And this negativity, what I'm speaking about, is when you're meeting it on your walk of embodiment through people where they are, let's just say, not aligned, not in embodiment, and boom, you're meeting it. And on top of this, let's also talk about divine appointment at the same time. So there are two things that I'm going to be blending. I'm going to talk about what took place this week, so you'll see how this all comes together. And I am so excited to have you here. So thank you for being open and available as well as ready to listen as you get to hear my heart through this. There's some personal things that I'll share with you, honestly, raw and real, as I do in every episode, so that together we can all learn, raise, rise up, resurrect, and truly bring that heaven on earth. So let's get into this. Alrighty, this week has been a really blessed week for me. And before I go into the week, I want to share right after this podcast. Woohoo! I am going to be recording a very special podcast episode for mothers. So you all mothers, or those of you who have beautiful mothers, mark your calendar. Now I'm just gonna announce it now before I go into today's topic. Mark your calendar for Friday, May 8th. I am releasing a very special episode dedicated to mothers that I'm recording today with four other podcasters who are part of my mastermind. So that is going to be recorded later today, and there are going to be gifts in this podcast that are being gifted to mothers. So be sure you mark your calendar. Let me grab some water. Excuse me. It's a gorgeous weather here in here in the DC area. And pollen. We are blessed with an amazing amount of pollen. So that's why I have more water here. Those of you who are on the video, you get to see me gulping some water here. So excuse me for those of you who are only listening on audio, as it is going to be necessary drinking water to speak through this today. So you mark that more on that later, and let's get into today's conversation. So this week, it was such an incredible week because sometimes you have these activities that you didn't plan for yet, God Almighty planned for you, and you don't know it until you come into it, then you realize it was a divine appointment. Have you ever experienced that? Where, for example, you didn't plan to go somewhere, but something shifted around, and you ended up going, and you end up having a conversation with somebody that you never even knew existed, then you're in this incredible conversation where without a shadow of doubt, you know this was divinely orchestrated, this was planted by God, and here you are in it, experiencing it. And this is exactly what happened with me and my oldest son yesterday with Keon. So Keon is looking for an apartment, and on Thursday, he had messaged me sharing that he's thinking of going forward with this one particular apartment. I said, okay, great. I said, hey, listen, I think there might be another one. Have you looked at this and this? And he said no. So I sent him a couple other apartments and he made an appointment on Saturday, which was yesterday, so that he can go visit it. And I love going to look at apartments with him. We did this in Florida when he was moving to St. Pete, and it was so great. And the apartment that he moved to ended up being that last one that I went with him, and it was just exactly right. Again, it was one of those divine orchestrations, and it worked so wonderful for him. God Almighty has been just so generous and great. So yesterday he had the appointment at 2 o'clock to go and look at an apartment. He picked me up so we can have mother-son time, get into these our deep conversations, and it's an area that I absolutely love. And we went, and while we were waiting in this new facility that we were looking at, a gentleman came and he was the one who's the tour person showing us around. So as we sat, and very quickly we had this conversation. I was smiling and just enjoying this gentleman named Rob. His his smile was so glorious, so glorious. And I was watching Keon and him having a conversation regarding what units were available, some of this, and he said he's gonna go ahead and take us for the tour. And somehow I just there's something that was rising with me. So I just began the conversation about God Almighty. So of course, he was he was of someone that was of faith, so he just opened it up, and my son's name is Kian, and that kind of piqued his interest, and we ended up this having this conversation where he opened up sharing that he was also married to an Iranian woman before. So his child is mixed, like my children. And next thing we knew between him, Kion, and I, we are inside this deep conversation about culture, understanding God Almighty, Christ, and the different way of bringing, you know, being raised, and my son Kion being half Iranian, Kurdish Iranian, and his other half being African American and from other cultures as well. So he had a lot to share with Rob about his son and that level of understanding. And next thing we knew, we're inside a divine appointment that God Almighty had orchestrated without us knowing. We're laughing, we are all acknowledging this moment, we're all recognizing. Here's this guy who is trying to have a more understanding of his son being a mixed child of these cultures and how to how to have him be raised. So, of course, I showed him my friend Terran, who is a comedian, who has a huge follower. He's also mixed and he brings a lot of education here. So here's my my own son that has that is so part of both cultures, bringing this to him and and a few others. And it was so wonderful because it was something that was supposed to be a tour, looking at apartments, like this three apartments, how the layout is. The conversation was so rich on cultures, on challenges that come with it. I got to share how I married outside the religion, the culture, to being able to go against a lot of the things that were actually really, let's just say, uh prejudiced. And I wanted to stand up to that, and I wanted to stand up for human beings that are created by God, and how how how crazy it is that we judge people based on the color of their skin, and it's just wild to me. So, and that's what I did. That was my journey when I was 21. I married outside, and I caused a lot of problems in the family, yet at the same time, my family got to learn about the husband that I was married to for 21 years, and they loved him and they got to know him. And here I have these beautiful children that God has blessed us so that they can be part of a change, change in resurrection, change in light, change in life, to be able to demonstrate how although cultures have beautiful blessings, they're also bound by tradition, they're also bound by certain ways, and they are they're not open, so they're very discriminate discriminatory. And so that's a double-edged sword with that, and it was so beautiful to have the conversation, talk about the food, talk about so many things, and Kian being in this position, my oldest son, who was able to bring his upbringing and his wisdom into this conversation. I'm gonna grab some more water, excuse me. And we all knew this was this was by God. God had made this and how generous God Almighty is. And we're just praising that and laughter and so many conversations. I was telling him, listen, when Kion moves here, I'm gonna bring tea, we sit and have tea, we'll teach you more. And he was just so excited about it, invited him to Michael's men's circle. He's very open to conscious men, and it was just like the most uplifting, wonderful time as Mike as Keon and I were having this conversation, and he's like, Mom, you really love people. I said, I really do love people, I love the connections, I love the communication, I love when we get to share a part of our heart with somebody else. And this gentleman, Rob, he was so lifted that he met us. He felt like family, we felt like just family immediately. And how blessing is that? That is a quality of the kingdom of God. Being able to, that experience of love that we feel in the heavenly realm, to be able to live it here in embodiment, like literally bring it here on earth and share it without knowing somebody. But here's this moment filled one hour of just exquisite love, not just surface level conversation, so deep, so meaningful, where the soul, the spirit, the heart, everything is is interacting in that space. And he keeps saying, Wow, you all are the type of people that I've prayed for, that I love. It's like the energy, I want to be around this, and it was just it was just so fantastic. And I'm sure you all have experienced this as well, where you didn't expect it, you didn't plan for it, yet it was planned for you, and you come into it and you are surprised, yet not surprised, yet you're so lifted from the juiciness of the conversation because you can experience God Almighty working through you and is inside that conversation. It was just fantastic. So we'll see if my son is gonna get this apartment or not, or be another one, whatever it is. We made a dear friend, and hi Rob, you are amazing. I know he's gonna be listening to this podcast, and God bless you for being so generous with your time and energy yesterday. So that was yesterday. Now, along this, what happens is then you have individuals who behave in a very negative way towards you. So if you have walked this ascension walk and embodiment, you're certainly gonna come around in the embodiment walk comes around. How do you not take that behavior of negativity, of trigger, of just like spirit of strife? How do you not take it personally? This is taking me honestly a very, very long time to move through. And the stronger and stronger I have been with God Almighty, it's been better. So let me share with you how it played out. For example, this week I have had some of you that know me personally have known me for a number of years, at least like the last 15 years on social media. You have seen that ever since I became public about my NDE experience and my connection to Yeshua, I've had a lot of also, I've had a lot of incredible, amazing, profound, remarkable support and as well as not too much, but uh a few very strong Jesus lover haters that have been harassing. So some of you are aware of this, and some of you might be new to you, so I'm gonna go ahead and share it. And this week I got to come across this again. So I want to share this upfront because this is a Raw and Real podcast. So as always, I'm really up front with all of you. Over the years, I personally have actually never experienced hate from any other group, anyone, other than the few times that I can count on my hands has only come from fundamental Christians that love Jesus, but their love is actually expressed in pure hate, which is the most fascinating thing to me. So I had one of these experiences this week where on my Facebook page there was another person, and they usually don't show their face, it's some like it's almost like a bot, and they change their names. There's no like again, they have no followers or anything, but they come on and they're just blasting hate in the name of Jesus. So that came about, and I'm gonna go back and sharing this for those of you that have been with me. You know, I had a really, really challenging case with somebody years ago who who was doing this a lot, and that's so powerful. What happened with that? And I didn't experience to that degree in a very, very long time, which I'm probably gonna talk about it, and maybe I'll talk about it on this podcast. But let me let me talk about this week. So I had a couple of people that came on, and I always take screenshots of it, and I of course I report it, but I take screenshots shots of it. So, along the way, while you are serving your mission, while you're serving your call, your truth, and you're allowing God Almighty to work through you. For example, like you go to a divine appointment where you didn't even plan. Here, also, you get these, I don't even call them trolls, they're just they're part of the plan. It took me a long time to realize it because before it would actually really hurt. It doesn't hurt me anymore because I understand, I have a deep conviction or understanding because God Almighty showed me what their purpose is. But they come and they're bashful, they're hateful, they're just just it's rough what they say, but it only impacts you, it only pierces if if you don't understand why they're behaving that way and you take it personally. But because I I finally understood their purpose, God showed me, it doesn't affect me. So this week I saw several of this, I took pictures of it, screenshot, send it to Facebook, and remove their comment. And I got to sit in the space of prayer for them. That's right. Prayed for them, prayed for the their soul, because it really has to do with the soul. And I'm gonna do a full episode about the difference between spirit and soul, because so many many people are very confused, they don't understand the difference. So I'll do a full conversation about this. So please stay tuned with me as that that's gonna be a necessary conversation. So I sit in the space of praying for these individuals because I'm very aware the spirit of strife has taken over them. So they can experience God's love, but they are looking so much seeking God's love. But what is consuming them is this hate. What's opposite of hate? Love. They're seeking love, but they can't access love. They're coming with hate, and the hate is attracting more hate to them. And when it comes to them, this is why you cannot address them with hate. And this is what happens with a large social media with division. So if you've ever noticed, for example, people are Republican or Democrats and they're hating on each other. Like with this Iran right now, there's all this hate going on with, for example, political figures, hate going on. Anytime, I know those of you who are our listeners, you don't you don't practice that because you know better. You know, if the minute you engage with hate, you are creating more of it, you are allowing it into you, you have allowed that to infect your soul. So as a result of it, then it affects your thoughts, affects your emotions, come in your body, and then you are releasing that onto earth. So once you know what's happening, you're definitely not going to engage with hate. And somebody that is acting from a place of negativity, they are consumed by that energy. Once you see it clearly, and you see that it's being spoken out of them, you you take a stand, you don't engage, you don't interact, you don't go in battlefield with them, you just remove yourself, and then you go in this space, in this space that I go into. Bless them, pray over them, ask God Almighty's love to pour over them, and ask for the spirit of strife to be removed out of them because they are also a child of God, but they have forgotten, and it's this negativity that is consuming them, and that's why it's being expressed through them. So when you see that, it is so important not to take it personally because it's not about you. Number two, there is this, there is this often they're insecure about something, they're going through a rough time, they are in they're challenged, they are they're alone. All of these things that their soul is being tampered with, so then it's playing out this way, and they're certainly not in charge of their life, so then the the expression comes of it this way, and it needs others to puncture or Or poke because when you then go into agreement to go into that challenge with them, it feeds the energy that is working in them, working through them, and that part is fed because a lot of times are these negative energies that are looking for bodies such as your body, my body, to be consumed in. Most people don't understand it. They willingly give their authority to that. And I'm saying this because I did as well. For years I did. I would get hurt, I would get upset, and then from that place of hurt and upset, I would communicate, and then I was affected so negatively because I went into agreement with that. Once God Almighty showed me, and I literally went to God Almighty, I was like, help me, because I don't want to be rattled like this anymore. I don't want to be affected by people's negativity, by their judgment and their lens and their harshness. I I don't want to because I was I had been so affected by it being very sensitive, just like many of you are super sensitive, and you are also being negatively impacted. You don't want to be impacted by anyone anymore because there isn't any need for it. Individuals are exactly where they are, they are on their journey, and their journey is compromised by so many things. They're having challenges around relationship, they're having challenges around money, they're having challenges around their dream, they're having challenges around family, they're having challenges around work. So all the negativity then is poured out of them and it needs to go somewhere. And if they find a target, they want to they want to project it on a target because they haven't been mature enough to handle it themselves or be in that deep conviction or connection, relationship with God, so that they can allow God Almighty to help them. And again, I was there as well. And as I changed things in myself, I have been able to not allow that to affect me with strangers and with family, much better in very immediate, it can still penetrate through. And that's the one that I've been even more stronger in it. Like, for example, even this week, this week, um like Michael got a little snappy or something, and I was like, whoa, that's not, you know, that's not okay. But it wasn't anything big, it was just tiny little, I wanted us to do a little video for our event, but he was just rattled because I asked too soon, so then he got a little snappy, and that happens in relationships, but I was like, that's okay, but it doesn't, it doesn't affect the way it used to affect me, penetrate, impact my sleep, my well-being, my emotions. And the reason why doesn't because I've been able to be so much with the presence of God Almighty in me, recognizing this happen and recognizing this spirit of strife, how it actually works, so that you have authority how to deal with it. But if any of you have challenges around this area, please do let me know. I'll be happy to maybe put a group together to help you become really strong in it. But it does take time, you can't just do it one time. It doesn't work, it's a it's a really strong practice, and I would say, like, if you want to give yourself a strong 12 weeks, I will be able to help you, or minimum, minimum has to be six, but you gotta be strong every day in it, and this is my every single day that I allow in myself so that I can meet it in this way and I can help lead others with it. So going back to this, as this took place this week on my social media, I removed it, and this morning I woke up and there were like several other ones, like two or three other ones had come in. So I removed all of those blocked, send it to Facebook, and then here's here's the cherry on top. I before I um come on here to record this, I get the most incredible, beautiful email from somebody who watched me on my podcast episode, not my podcast, on um on Alex Frari's podcast, Next Level Soul, that I was on a year and a half ago on my NDE that has like over 120,000 views. She I've had so many people message me how that episode helped them, how touched by they were, how much it helped them. It was so so so beautiful. Actually, you know what? I'm gonna go ahead and read it for you really, really quick, just so that you audience can hear what she said. So she said this to me in the email. And then you get these moments. Her name is Rit. So thank you, Rit. Or is it Rit? Yeah, Rit. Thank you so much for this. She said, Hi, honey. I just watched your interview on Next Level Soul Podcast with Alex Frari, and wow, what a beautiful story you shared. I had just finished meditating and praying to Yeshua to understand why I had to go through so much pain, trauma, suffering, loneliness, and feeling of being an outcast in my dark life. After shedding some tears, I felt drawn to pick up my phone and I came across this episode with you on it. And your explanations completely answered my prayer. It is so incredible how Yeshua uses each of us in the most mystical ways to speak his words through. Thank you for your advice, especially to young honey. It was exactly what I would say to young me. I pray that Yeshua showers you with so much love, joy, and many blessings in the days, weeks, months ahead. Warmly, Reit. Thank you so much, Reed. And isn't it amazing? So here is this one who's watched my show, knows how much I love beloved Yeshua Christ Jesus. I got to, I'm so blessed. I get to meet him in afterlife. I've given my entire life, dedicated my whole life, given everything up to serve, to serve what he showed me, which was the mighty God presence that I am that I am, and to come to live it, to serve it on earth, everything that I do, my ministry, my cause, my messages, my clients, everything is dedicated to that. So, of course, because I'm in that deep truth, when I get individuals that made these comments earlier on my Facebook post with their Jesus hate comments, then there is this like read, which I've had so many messages like this as well. So, what's the point of all of this? The point of all of this is if you are living your truth, that conviction, it is your call. Know that you're gonna get trolls. That's just part of it. But they're part of testing you whether you're gonna be affected or not affected, and you're gonna stand taller and you're gonna go through a journey that most likely you will be affected, you'll get hurt, you get upset, like why, why I'm just serving my purpose. I'm doing my minding my own, it's my own page. Why people coming on my page trashing it? And that's part of it, because then you're gonna have to meet those emotions in you, and you're gonna have to strengthen those. And the more public you go, the more you do this. And those of you that know me personally, you've seen me go through a few iterations of this. Because when I did the planetary car, I was so public, and I was on all those travels and all those years, I would share a lot, and of course, I was labeled all kinds of things, and you go through these stages, it is part of it because you are tested, and as you are tested in your truth, that becomes your living testimony, and that's what you can lean on. So I lean on this truth of God Almighty, and I continue forward, and I get to bless them, I get to share prayer on them, I get to share just love over them with their fake names and stuff. So, yeah, the several of them I took pictures of today. So if you're going through it, first of all, you're not alone. Second, I trust you really hearing this in my heart. If any emotions in you rise up, do not act from there, don't message from there, don't respond from there, don't go into trigger fist. If it comes up, go ahead and meet it and meet it so that you can transform it. And Michael and I have the most amazing self-mastery course on this called Belief, Thought, Emotion, Self Mastery. It's 14 modules. It is on our website, EssentialAchemist.com under courses. It's 2222. It is the most powerful gift you would ever give to yourself. The reason why we created it is because we had to go through it ourselves and to be able to share it to help others. And it made such a difference so that we can be on this side. I can be here and I can speak to you by actually embodying what I'm sharing with you. I'm living it, so I'm sharing it. I've had to do that with myself, and it was tough. I'm not gonna tell you, it was tough. So, in that course, we go so deep how to meet these emotions because often you you're responding with your trigger, you're responding with your negative emotions that rise in you. And here's the crazy part the minute that rises in you, those those feelings are in you. That person brought it out, but the minute you act from there, you are going to create more of that negativity, it's gonna affect everything else in your life, it's gonna, it's like a poison. You bring the poison in you and it makes you bitter, it affects your mood, affects everything else, affects your finances, affects your love, and the next thing you're infected with that person's negativity only because you didn't know how to handle it properly, maturely, uh, also you gave your power away. So, in this course, we teach you how not to do that because we've had to do it ourselves, and also you learn tools and skills, and we have our own what's called the like method. How to, when you come across this, how to immediately diffuse it, that's also in there so that you can use it yourself. So it's up to you. You know, you can continue to suffer or you can get yourself out of it. And if you don't want to go through self-paced course, but you want to actually work with me so you can see how I've done it myself, you can do that. You can definitely set up a call with me and I'll help you. But I'm telling you, I'm I'm a little strict on this because I'm gonna help you do what I've had to do myself. And and there's a huge difference in price, just so that you know, if you try to work with me privately, so just be prepared for that as well because you know, if I'm happy to do that, but I just don't take as many clients anymore. I only work with clients who are really willing and they're gonna dedicate their time and they're gonna truly go through it. Otherwise, you can do the self-paced course yourself. So that's what I wanted to share because I love to be able to help you be very strong in God Almighty, and those who are halfway in between that they don't want to really have a truth and conviction, just not gonna work with that because I want to work with the ones that are willing, they are gonna make a huge impact in their own life, and I've had to do that for myself, so that's why there's a difference in that, and I'm happy to do that. So, takeaways, you're always being guided, you're not alone, you may be put in a position of divine appointment, you don't even know it, keep following that. If you get trolls or people that are coming with hating, just remember it's a spirit of strife that is upon them. They're coming in, you don't need to engage with it. Yet you can send love and blessings, watch your own emotions, see what's come up, transfer those emotions that has come with you. If you can't do it, get a mentor, you know, sign up for the course like we have that's proven it can help you be on the other side because we did it ourselves. So you can empower yourself because the walk of embodiment, this whole thing is walk of embodiment. Ascension Alchemist is all about that. You already have ascended. Now what? Ascended to that consciousness. You've remembered you are part of the mighty I am presence. So now what? You gotta embody it, and that embodiment is the walk of mastery, so you are a master. Don't forget that. You just have to practice your mastery, you can't practice your mastery when you continue coming from your limitation, then you're not mastering that call for you that you are to master. You can't deliver it on earth. If you can't deliver it, you're not gonna bless other people with it. The good news is if that seed has been placed in you, that means you can. And if you're hearing these words, that means you're capable, that means there is a road, that means you can also get yourself out of it the way I have. And you can experience much more of a blessing in life without having to suffer with other people's comments and and negativity. You do not have to take it off at all. As you've healed yourself, you won't be doing that because you you're moving into that place of deep love that God Almighty has placed in you, and that's a huge, huge difference. That's a different walk, and that's the walk of embodiment. So I trust this episode really helps you. It's gonna reach exactly your heart and your soul and your spirit, and I will do a whole episode just on that one. And I'm so excited, so excited for the May 8th Mother's Day special episode that I'll be releasing, which I'm gonna be recording today with the ladies that are part of my mastermind. I'm so excited for that. So stay tuned with that. Lots of love, lots of blessings to you, and have a most gorgeous day. And I'll see you on the next episode. God bless.